#and the same is true of gender
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Thank you for existing, trans men. Your very existence does so much good in so many ways, and we need you like we need trees and like the world needs the color green.
#I love that trans women exist and the world needs them and I just reblogged something along those lines as a love balm and anti-hate thing#I need enby and ace and aro people in my world there are so many false dichotomies where the answer is “neither?” or “both?” or “that's dum#I'm opting out#opting out forever of all of that nonsense"#My least favorite bit of the trans pride flag is that it acknowledges the whole blue-boys pink-girls nonsense#but it's fine it's all fine#someone wrote that whether the three-Os Jehovah-god exists or not “he exists in that the idea of him affects people and society”#and the same is true of gender#and the silly colors#but oh my goodness#my best friend says their life was saved by Bujold's character Bel Thorne#A male friend is fat and bald and happy with it because he is friends with a trans man who sought out that very body type as desirable#And let's not get into TERF hate except to say things that make it clear it's stupid and wrong hateful poison#another thing that the existence of trans men helps repudiate#this is from my heart#the wordsmithing part of my brain is trying#but sincerely thanks for existing and do please hang in there and be well#<3
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its wild watching the telephone game of misinformation happening with imane khelif but tbh i think they 100% could put a man in a boxing ring against a woman and so long as they're in the same weight class i wouldnt give a shit. like there are cis people sharing photos of the fight going ''its SO HORRIBLE to watch a WOMAN get PUNCHED this is an OUTRAGE'' its boxing. thats how boxing works? they signed up to get punched? do you not understand sports?
#like imo they should just eliminate gender segregation in sports so we stop having all these intersex/transphobic panics#you cant disqualify someone on bullshit hormonal advantages (which might not even be true in this case btw) if everyones on the same field
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Transandrophobia truthers are so damn racist and white oh my fucking god y'all actually piss me the fuck off every time you tokenize Black and brown men for your stupid as fuck "mra but make it trans-inclusive" ideology created by a creepy guy with a corrective rape fetish(something I'll never let up on for as long as I live, btw). If I ever see another one of y'all say "Black and brown men face discrimination because they're seen as overly masculine and that's why masculinity in men is oppressed in this society" I will literally kill myself. Stop using Black and brown men as brownie points for your bullshit arguments about misandry being real when you don't have the slightest idea how racialized oppression works. White boys are so annoying and dumb istfg.
@punkeropercyjackson @punknicodiangelo @pinkpinkstarlet
#like none of the dumbasses i've seen say this shit have been poc and HEY IT'S ALMOST LIKE THERE'S A REASON FOR THAT#because actual black and brown men know that their oppression is not based around masculinity but around RACISM#because if it was about masculinity then feminine men of color wouldn't face the same oppression and would be privileged over them which#is not true#it's also worth mentioning that black and brown WOMEN also face these same issues of being seen as more aggressive/strong/violent and thus#more dangerous even more so than our male counterparts so it's not an 'anti-masculinity' issue it's a fucking racism issue#plus once again feminine women of color also face these stereotypes#when we are masculinized even while presenting as feminine that isn't anti-masculinity you dumb fucks that's just racialized misogyny#and misogynoir#it is incredibly telling that white transmascs who use this argument never even mention women of color and that's because if they did then#their entire headass argument would fall apart because it's not about MASCULINITY being oppressed it's about RACISM(which newsflash women#experience too) and masculinity being assumed of black and brown people(women included) is just another facet of the white supremacist#gender binary not any form of masculinity being 'oppressed' in this society lol#don't even get me started on how these men misuse butch lesbians in their arguments as well and act like they are man-lite ugh#sorry but as a black woman i am officially pissed off rbn#like y'all love to spout 'intersectionality' and shit maybe *throws book at them* ACTUALLY READ UP AND LEARN WHAT THE FUCK IT MEANS#stop misusing words created by black women to prove that men are an oppressed group on god you mfers are annoying#anyway the lesson learned here is that white trans men are just as insipid and racist as their cis counterparts#pos the lot of you#racism#transandrophobia is not real#op
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I’ve seen so many people saying that “of course the straight couple get the happy ending” (meaning ineffable bureaucracy), am I missing something? I thought Beelzebub was nonbinary ? Did I make this up in my head, or have people just forgotten because of the actor swap?
#they’re not straight in my eyes?#i know angels and demons don’t have genders in the same way as humans#but obviously some present as male/female/nonbinary#and I thought beelzebub was considered nonbinary or genderless#maybe this bugs me because I’m femme presenting but nonbinary and people assume that if I date a man it’s a straight relationship#which is just not true lol#anyways!!#someone let me know if I’m wrong because I’m confused now#em rambles#good omens#good omens spoilers#good omens beelzebub#ineffable bureaucracy#good omens michael
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funniest pjo interaction ive ever had was once i was meeting someone for the first time and i mentioned I cosplayed PJO, and they went "Oh, yeah I could tell - let me guess, Percy or Nico. You have The Hair." and a wave of fuckor wracked my feeble frame. Like. yeah they were right. but they didnt have to read my soul like an open book about it.
#pjo#riordanverse#its true like 80% of nico cosplayers have the same hair even if they wear wigs for their nico cosplay#its the gender-heavily-informed-by-nico-during-formative-years
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Anyway happy Pride Month to my favorite type of character which I call "might be asexual, aromantic, gay, or a combination thereoff, but it doesn't really matter, because it is very clear that he does NOT like women and his life partner is a man, so clearly One Of Us."
#look there is a Reason why I imprinted so heavily on both of these#like yeah very fun characters very fun stories and everything#very fun ships also#Relationship Goals#true OTP material#BUT ALSO#part of me just CAN RELATE REALLY HARD#I too wish that I had a same-gender life partner with whom I just got magically stuck one day without having to put in too much of an effor#with whom we very much love each other and can be Weird and Unhinged together and have fun adventures#queer headcanons#Sherlock Holmes#The Lone Ranger#aromantic#asexual#gay
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Something something Jadzia Dax something something the soul of a man but the body of a woman but a union of both something something she’s perfectly and fully feminine yet will always have masculinity as a part of her something something favorite character on ds9
#she’s undeniably female#and yet#the way her gender works….#been thinking about souls lately and how our soul is our true self#but it might not look like us#came at the same time as my ds9 rewatch#so the brain started braining#idk it always gets me#star trek ds9#ds9#deep space nine#jadzia dax#dax
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But I can't wear... THAT! I'm supposed to be a guy and guys aren't supposed to wear stuff like that. Of course, everybody knows girl stuff is better. I mean, I'm sure all guys think about how it'd be better to be a girl. But, I'm not a girl, so I just have to man up and be tough.
Oh please, if you're really a man you'd be able to put it on without any hesitation, if you really have any masculinity you'd put on this pink frilly dress and just shrug it off! It's only a piece of cloth! Who cares! Unless... You care? Maybe, just maybe, you're scared you'd enjoy wearing it? That you'd never want to go back? That you'll get rid of all your guy clothes and live the rest of your life in skirts and dresses?
nahhh, you're man!
aren't you?
So you have absolutely no reason to worry, just put it on and you'll see~
#Oh and just to be clear you'd be the first “guy” that starts blushing when asked to put on a dress#But there's always a first for everything :3#It certainly doesn't mean that you're the same as all the other girls I've convinced of their true genders#.#forcefem#asks open!#i-like-talking#..#Thanks so much for this ask anon!!! It was well written and so fun to play off of :3
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Sigyn avoiding the allegations by only referring to masc Loki as her ‘husband’ and calling fem Loki her ‘bestie’ in the most allegation-inducing tones possible while insisting she’s unmarried for the time being
#‘how are you not married??? that’s the same guy!!!!’#Sigyn: I’m heterosexual 🗣🔥🗣🦅💥💥🦅💯🔥🗣✨💥💥🦅🚨🙌🗡✨🦅💥💥#people like why don’t u just call him your partner or explain that he’s living life as a woman at the moment and she’s like ‘...no <3’#Sigyn avoids misgendering this way but also avoids people being mean about the gender switch bc she insists fem Loki is not the same guy#a true ally fr#‘does your husband know you’re at the club right now??’ *sigyn looks Loki in the eyes and asks ‘what husband?’*
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Maybe it's the gender is an illusion or a spice of life in me but I gotta say the gender bends are transphobic discourse stuff sounds a lot like nonsense to me. Before you shoot me between the eyes I use they/them pronouns so therefore I am allowed to have an opinion about this lmao
#sophie speaks#sophie answers#its a strange discourse#wait i should tag this#tw discourse#i like gender bent stories theyre interesting to me#probably because im an afab autistic person who REALLY shouldve been clocked as autistic earlier#but wasnt because i was a girl#a lot of ppl say its dumb because the characters would be the exact same but that aint true!#simply by how girls vs boys are raised#and also i will be fr fr ive always had a thing for feminine guys and masculine girls and anything weird w gender#its just fun idk i dont get the trouble
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I'm kinda tired of dungeon meshi fans blatantly misinterpreting Kabru's goals, motivations, and character so they can ship him with Laios...like obviously it's awesome if you enjoy Laikabu but can you nooot twist Kabru's intentions for involving himself with the guy who constantly triggers his monster trauma and pisses him off so bad he gets brain damage so that he turns into "the guy who wants to suck Laios's dick" as his entire character? I've even seen people cut off Kabru's words to make it seem like he is admiring Laios because it would disrupt that narrative
#how can you think marcille hates laios and kabru wants to fuck him that's not.......canon.....#every time I see stuff of them it’s people being like 'oh kabru loves it so much when laios reminds him of his traumatic past'#be it his eyes/monsters/or the succubus thing 'he just HAS to fuck laios'#kui was noooooot intending for kabru to be lusting after that man!!!#i love laios but come ON why dont you actually care about KABRU tooooo#for l4bru to actually work one of them would have to suppress a big part of themselves and its ALWAYS on kabru it’s so insufferable#it's just like how some people misconstrued fem!toshiro blushing about laios to be her crushing on him when it was obv the same discomfort#but it made the microaggressions even worse because of the gender difference AS WELL as the culture difference#SIGH#i prommis ryoko kui did not create kabru so he can think about sucking laioss humungous donger all day fhsdkfhskjh#L4ikabu is the worst case I’ve seen of people twisting things for their ship because it’s literally just not true…#blatant misreading of the text goes crazy!!!!#like sure they're foils but what about the actual dynamic...w8 don't think about that actually cuz yoikes lol#obviously not threatening anyone who ships them please just stop saying it's canon oh my g#pwease actually read what kabru says he lays it out really clearly and has a super interesting backstory that drives his actions 🥲#i dont expect anyone to read this because im not using a tag but if u do then...🫢😯#i dont understand y ppl like it so much when laios ignores kabru so hard KABRU DESERVES BETTER#I’ve never felt like this about any ship before wow it just makes me 🫷
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my thesis statement will of course always be that the angels + demons in good omens are aspec (and nonbinary) but crowley specifically was so aromantic this season. man who goes "oh, romance? yeah, i know how that works. practically an expert. i've picked up so much from the way that people talk about it and represent it in media. i know all the perfect steps to execute romance. it has nothing to do with personhood and feelings; there's a certain list of requirements, certain steps that you take, certain subjective prerequisites to be fulfilled, and then you'll have romance. easy. simple." when he has no idea how romance actually works because it's never been something that was accessible or valuable to him. the general conventions for love seem so simple from the outside when you pick up an idea of it through cultural osmosis but not any real experience or investment in the idea. maggie and nina come in to tell him that he can't be messing with people's love lives because it's serious and personal but how should he know? when you're outside of it and don't even realize that you're outside of it, romance is just a thing that happens. and it seems so simple...
#screaming wailing throwing things punching walls that's aro representation actually#when i say the angels and demons are all aspec and nonbinary. i of course mean That in a sense of like.#they don't align with any of our constructions of sexuality or gender because they're not built with the same inner workings#but by our definitions they're closer to those concepts than to 'conventional' conceptions of gender and sexuality#anyway crowley is so me walking into my middle school classes on the first day of school and picking out a suitable crush for the year#based on effusive criteria that i picked up from media and popular culture and the expectation that i Should have a crush#because those were the steps you took. at least it seemed like that to me.#this applies to aziraphale too of course#when all the romance you've known or seen takes place under awnings in the rain or at jane austen balls. of course it stands to reason#that the same would be true of any love in real life. cause how else would it work#anyway that kiss was so aromantic it's crazy#good omens#good omens 2#aromantic#aro#crowley
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Regarding the whole "Fandom Is An Escape, so why should I have to care this much about misogyny/racism/ableism/transphobia/etc." thing. Idk about the rest of you, but it gets kind of hard for me to "escape" when I keep seeing people say the same vile things about characters who share aspects of my identity that I hear all the time in real life.
#gotta say: it doesn't make me feel any better getting ignored/disparaged on account of my gender irl and then seeing every fictional woman#also get ignored/disparaged when there is no material difference between her and popular male characters other than her gender#how do I escape from irl misogyny if y'all keep willfully ignoring and flinging gendered insults at 99% (<-lowball estimate) of#female characters? how do I put aside the ableism I face in real life when y'all discuss disabled/mentally ill characters in the most#absolutely out-of-pocket way? how do I forget about biphobia when the 'arguments' you make 'for fun' about bisexual characters#in fiction sound EXACTLY the same as the things people say about my bisexuality outside of the internet/fan culture?#and then obviously this gets compounded if you are trying to even simply EXIST in fandom as a poc or a trans person or an intersection of#any or all these varying identities/life experiences#like yes caring about fictional characters is not the same as caring about real people OBVIOUSLY I can't BELIEVE I have to keep clarifying#that. and at the same time!! because multiple things can be true at the same time!!!! engaging in behavior that enforces pre-ingrained#societal biases and prejudices!!!!!!!! does not help dismantle those biases and prejudices!!!!!!!!!!!!!! in a real-world way that DOES#involve caring about actual people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#it's also. interesting. when people go on & on about how some newest show about thin cis white (male) gays is So Important & Revolutionary#So We Must Do Everything To Keep It Relevant And Visible and then act this way about women/poc/trans people/disabled people/fat people#in media. so like. you DO agree that seeing a variety of life experiences represented in fiction is beneficial. you DO believe in the#value of depicting marginalized people. interesting that that only seems to apply to a VERY narrow and specific category of marginalization#(ugh remember when I talked about this and someone called me a straight person good times)
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OH MY GOD IMAGINE TRANSFEMME YONJI TRYING TO PICK A FIGHT WITH SANJI DURING WCI AND SANJI OBVIOUSLY REFUSING TO FIGHT HER BECAUSE HE DOESN'T HURT WOMEN AND YONJI DAMN NEAR BREAKING DOWN CRYING BECAUSE SANJI AND REIJU ARE THE ONLY PEOPLE WHO ACTUALLY SEE HER AS A WOMAN
Sorry I was thinking about the ask I sent last night and this happened
DON'T DO THIS TO ME SO EARLY IN THE MORNING C'MON 😭😭😭
Sanji has the finest gaydar for trans people. I am so sure about that. Especially when it comes to trans girls because he would definitely say something like "You don't need to tell me to know you have the soul of a woman" or some cheesy, gentleman thing like that. If he can have a mellorine detector I am 100% sure he knows when he's in front of a woman even if the girl hasn't even come out yet.
He just knows something's like, different about Yonji and she's having a whole gender crisis while WCI happens and Sanji can't fight her. Like- It doesn't feel right to do so. And he knows she's hiding something and she's suffering and he has seen this before but he doesn't even go there. It's not his problem and he will not help the one who hurt him. So not fighting her is alright, but he's not going to help her either.
Eventually, he ends up finding out, either thanks to Reiju or because Yonji has said some very suspicious things that make it obvious she's a girl. And it just kills me to think about Yonji having a whole breakdown mid-fight with Sanji because Sanji refuses to fight her and Yonji doesn't want him to just-- Not fight back? That's no fun! She wants him to get angry at her and do something! But Sanji won't move and only tries to dodge her attacks.
Sanji might still never forgive her for what she did to him, but he could never let a woman suffer in this hell. So... You know. Thoughts about helping Yonji get to Momoiro Island or something so that way she can be herself and free!!
#i love that you color their names it's really cute#also fem yonji my beloved so true girl#any scenario with sanji refusing to fight a trans girl who hasn't accepted herself yet is the best concept ever i owe you my life#also same thing with trans men bc it'd be really gender affirming tbh if sanji fought a trans man who hasn't come out yet#and everyone's like ??????? 'i thought you didn't fight girls'#and sanji is like '??????? nono this is a man i just know in my soul'#imagine in op fixed everything that's wrong with sanji and instead the timeskip made him the finest trans supporter#'trans supporter' as if sanji wasn't literally genderfluid to me but yeah#one piece#black leg sanji#vinsmoke yonji#transfem yonji
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what is your go to : buddie realisation scene?
i think i have myself a scene and music in mind for this, but I'm so curious on how you guys see an eventual realisation of feelings between them and how could this one be on both sides
#i'll prefer a scene where none of them think about cheating#and since buck only realised is attraction to other genders recently#a slow and tormented realisation is needed for me tbh#same for poor eddie who like...#if this all ship really is going to happen#will be “devastated”#devastated in a way where he's going to think about christopher first#as he should tho but...#he will keep banging on about his true feelings for buck#doubt about them and thinking about this new sensation over and over again#buck#evan buckley#eddie#eddie diaz#buddie#911#personal
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